ニーナ・メルセデスのインスタグラム(lifewithmariza) - 8月13日 05時48分

Spending less time stressed and overthinking and more time in the moments. ☀️🌹
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For a while I have been dealing with a group of people or a girl who puts my safety and my family safety in jeopardy here on Instagram. There are people out there that go through my comments and DM my followers from a fake page claiming to be me. They tell them they are me, they ask to talk on the phone, they meet up, and worst of all they ask for money. They don’t care that when these people come looking for their money they come to be. It’s a catfish game and a costly one to a lot of people. I makes me sad to think of all the people who lost money and invested emotion into this “fake relationship” thinking it’s me.
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I spent the better part of yesterday overthinking the situation. I went through a range of emotion but at the end of the day you can never understand why people hurt other people. I felt the poison of the situation seeping into my day and I literally had to stop and say nope I’m not doing this!
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I feel like the best thing to do sometimes is let God fight those battles. I think the devil steps in to try and destroy your happiness. It’s up to you to preserve your it, you have to protect your energy and expect the unexpected. When the sun is shining on your face take it, when the rain is coming down dance in it. Don’t waste precious time trying to figure out why people do what they do. Don’t internalize it because it has nothing to do with you.
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Learning to separate yourself from other people and situations takes work. Sometimes we carry the stress of situations on us and don’t realize it. If you can relate in anyway I suggest the book the 5 levels of attachment by Don Miguel it’s a great read. 📚 it taught me to detach myself from things like this and not let it suck my energy away.
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Now off to enjoy my vacation in #palmsprings for the rest of the weekend. Have a blessed day family 🙏🏽❤️ _
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