ニーナ・メルセデスのインスタグラム(lifewithmariza) - 10月27日 03時20分

??Does anyone have negative people in their life? People who sabotage your efforts or throw you off track constantly?
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“Someone doing better than you will NEVER criticize you, read that AGAIN for me” - unknown
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When I was a teen I ran track and I can remember my family not being supportive of what I was trying to do so with no support behind me I ended up dropping out of track after a short time. As a matter of fact without my parents support I dropped out of school in the 9th grade without finishing. I just didn't feel like it was important to them so it wasn't important to me.
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As many of you know I got pregnant shortly after partly because I wanted someone to love me that I could love back and my baby would love me. I was looking for a new family for love and support at a young age and made drastic attempts to feel that. After a rough failed marriage that was extremely abusive I was able to get my life in a better direction. -
Years later enrolled in college I always wanted to help others so I majored in Kinesiology I wanted to be a trainer or coach even back then. That was my DREAM and my GOAL I was happy I had taken the steps to finally make that happen. I loved school and did well. But family members and friends kept telling me "You can't do that, you are wasting your time in school to pursue a career you'll never be able to use and make money" after a while of listening to that I quit College and left my goals and dreams behind me believing I was wasting my time.
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Years later when I decided to compete in NPC bodybuilding out of the blue after 3 kids, I blogged it on social and got so much negativity. People constantly said its impossible you’ll never finish it. You can’t do that for a living. But I did it anyway and won my first show ?? then landed a sponsorship.
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Lesson I learned: use all that negativity to fuel your fire. If you believe in it, don’t seek outside opinions for validation. Your vision belongs to you don’t expect others to always see it for you. You can do this on your own. I wish I had followed through with all the things I initially quit in my life. But I’m on track for where God wanted me to be NOW!
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