Michelle Lewinさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Michelle LewinInstagram)「Love is never simple. Real love is a huge challenge for two different individuals to, not only get along well, but also being able to mix what your values are, beliefs, interests and maybe even cultures. There are so many things that must mix and match until you finally go from “being in love” to “love”. Both must be able to adapt, both must be able to accept. Often quite early you will notice if some things are way too different to even try to move on, or things are tricky in the beginning but it gets better and better. A lot of relationships are going in that direction, until someone starts to unleash who they really are. And there you are, with the memories from how wonderful it was in the beginning and you desperately clinch on, hoping things will get better. This is often where it goes terribly wrong. This is the perfect opportunity for your partner to lower your self esteem, even blame you for things you have nothing to do with... and the relation gets destructive. At some point of your relation, you must take a moment and think: “Is this what I want?” “Am I happy?” ...and if the answer is not a direct “YES”, then the following question must be: “Why am I in the relation”? Life is too short to waste on bad relationships and feeling unhappy. In a relation it’s about two, and both must be happy. Communication must exist in a relation. Sex. Uplifting comments. Affection. Being nice to each other. Kissing each other good night every night. Hopefully most of you are living in a healthy relationship, and I am so happy for those who do. But there are those who are not. Ask yourself those three questions I stated earlier. If you are not happy, then it’s probably time to do something about it. It might hurt in the beginning, but it’s so worth it. Destructiveness sucks. I want you to be happy. 🙏🏻 (Photo @LeeLHGFX)」3月4日 3時07分