Ashley Jamesさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Ashley JamesInstagram)「I wanted to post this for everyone who needs to read this after getting quite a lot of DMs asking for advice. 💗 If you're sat there wondering what you did wrong, waiting for closure, or begging for them to tell you what happened so you can move on... You've already got the answer. They've realised you aren't the one for them, and they don't have the emotional maturity or respect for you to communicate honestly with you. You need to love and respect yourself enough to know that you deserve more than that, and move on. 💗 I've had various messages from people over the last week either going through a sudden break up and being confused, being ghosted after someone seemed into them, or seeing someone who "seems really into them' but then tells them they don't want to commit. I think we'd all know what advice we'd give our friends in each of these situations, but why do we find it so hard to follow our own advice? Respecting yourself and moving on isn't easy. You're allowed to feel heartbroken and upset. But you can't force someone to like you back, and you probably don't like them as much as you think you do... it's just that the rejection hurts. But trust me, there is someone out there who won't leave you confused, who you won't have to second guess. It's what you deserve. The sooner you let go, the sooner you allow the right person to walk into your life. Plus you won't be wasting your energy on someone who doesn't deserve you. 💗」9月14日 4時45分