アレクサ・ヴェガのインスタグラム(vegaalexa) - 7月7日 07時20分
Mushy mom post. Readers BEWARE! : This was the moment Ocean met Kingston. Whenever I think about it I cry. While it hasn’t been the easiest transition for Oc’ he is doing such a good job and I am an emotional proud mama. Oc’ has met so many babies... but he knew this one was different. When Los sat him down next to Kingston his eyes filled up with tears and he buried his face in Los’ chest hugging him and wouldn’t look back. He was quiet and shy and not acting like Ocean. It honestly broke my heart. All my mama fears and guilt were coming true. But within ten minutes Ocean warmed up and was running around the room. Now, it’s still a back and forth. Sometimes he likes “baby” sometimes he doesn’t. The emotional tantrums about it are exhausting... But considering all the new changes... he is a little champion. And it will only get better. Having Kingston has brought our family so much closer together. More intentional quality time with Ocean so he doesn’t feel left out... and an incredible new bond between me and los (especially with all the tag teaming we have to do with two kids.) I love our family. I love how at peace and complete we feel in this new season and I am so thankful to have the greatest husband to get to do life with. ✝️❤️🌴🌸🌊
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taydools
Aw I understand this so much. Balancing two littles is such an emotionally hard transition for everyone. I felt so much mama guilt. Guilt that I had changed Jacks life as he knew it, especially when he clung to daddy in those first few days & pushed me away sometimes because I was busy with baby. Guilt I wasn't bonding enough with baby because let's be honest, our family dynamic was working so well before she came and changed it. Would things ever feel "normal" between all of us? Mix in postpartum hormones and those first few weeks are plain hard. But I cannot believe what champions these first borns are!! They show so much light and love. Addies almost 4 months and already Jack can't go anywhere without her and just adores her 💗 So happy for your beautiful family!! And so excited to see all of Gods wonderful family adventures as a family of four for you guys 😍
dorothydjb
When we had our second son our first loved him soooo much! But he was emotional and couldn’t put it into words. He started to cry one night and my mother said what’s wrong? He said “I don’t know Bamma I just don’t know.” I thought it was so fitting because he couldn’t put into words why he was emotional because he was a toddler who loved his brother and didn’t understand the rest of what he felt. When my second was four months old they played in the tub for the first time with my oldest splashing his feet making the baby laugh over and over. This October my oldest son married my his brother and my new daughter in law ?
lifeinastorm
I went through exactly this when my youngest was born, I cried because my oldest was curious about her but was also very mad. She has sensory issues and at the time she would be and play extremely too rough, with me in recovery and with the new baby so we had to keep her back and that's what really broke my heart because she didn't understand why she couldn't curl up on me anymore etc. As time went on she finally learned to be gentle with her and even though she still has jealousy towards her 3 years later, they have come to love each other and we definitely couldn't imagine our lives without the both of them ?
judith_wc
hang in there. your doing an amazing job. God has your back and there is nothing greater than that. Ur son will het used to the new sibling. and you as a momma it may take a while to realize this will get easier each day. God knows your fears. he will turn them to strength. God knows your expectations. he will turn that into his mindset knowing that you are guided by him only. you can do this! even with all those postpartum hormones! trust me ive been there! its not cool at all. surround urself by people who will life you and encourage you. ?
madaleine569
Ugh I understand soooooo much! When my second daughter was born, my oldest wasn't even 10 months old and she was a total daddy's girl (I was just the one that fed her, bathed her and changed her lol). When our second came home (she was a preemie) and her dad was holding her, my oldest saw them, covered her face, burst into tears. It's been almost 28 years and I still remember the look of heartbreak on her face ? Obviously the two girls don't remember it, so they weren't traumatized, but I sure was ??
sbrowing22
My sisters oldest had the same reaction too his baby brother. Now he loves him so very much because he takes big brother duties very serious.? Quinn-pie and Jack Jack play so well together now and you can tell how much relief my sister feels now. Enjoy it while it last soon they will be big boys arguing about silly things. You and Carlos are so very blessed enjoy Ocean and Kingston!!! ??? Much love from the mainland!?????
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