ソフィア・ブッシュのインスタグラム(sophiabush) - 6月30日 03時31分
This thought has been resonating with me so hard the last few days. On Tuesday night at the #CreatorAwards, once @ruthielindsey and I finished our masterclass, the room opened up for a Q&A. One woman asked such a thoughtful question, and to sum it up, basically wanted to know how we each got to the point in our lives where we stopped being afraid. How we pushed past fear and came into confidence.
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Now. Here's where shit gets real. We didn't. That whole "get past x and you'll be onto y" thing? It doesn't exist. No matter what you achieve, you'll set a new goal that will be out in the distance. You will never "arrive." No matter how much success you have -- or in many cases the world perceives you to have had -- it comes with a shit ton of failure too. But you definitely miss 100% of the shots you don't take. So you've got to choose to take the first step. The big leap. The one that feels so scary that you shut your eyes and scream when it starts. Do that.
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Whatever you're afraid of -- the questions usually look like this, right? "Can I do this? Who do I think I am to try to do this? Why would he/she pick me? Am I crazy to think this might be something? How do I ask? How can I tell them? How can I get my foot in the door? How can I get on that plane?" The list goes ON
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The fear won't magically subside. You've got to pick it up and carry it in your pack with you. Roll it up next to your ambition and your tenacity. Tuck it in with the confident thread that runs up your spine. Right next to your big idea. Your big love. It's part of you. The sooner you make yourself acquainted with it and quit trying to pretend like it's not there, the sooner it becomes just another piece of you instead of a larger than life monster in your closet.
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You'll rack up successes and failures in your life. They'll all be pieces of your puzzle. Regret will be the thing that keeps you awake at night. It's the thing that makes you ask the unanswerable "what if?" Next time you ask "what if," finish it up like this. "What if I AM as capable, smart, lovable, and worthy as my best friend says I am?" Yup. Now leap. Fuck regret. Don't let it own you. You're worth so much more than that #Creator
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