レイチェル・ブレイセンのインスタグラム(yoga_girl) - 3月26日 04時44分

Here is a list of things I have been doing "wrong" since I became a mother - if I were to listen to what everyone else says:
1 - I'm co-sleeping with my baby. According to popular vote she should be sleeping in her own crib, separate from us.
2 - I'm holding her for most of the day. Apparently I should be putting her down to sleep on her own, even if she's crying. This will make her "independent".
3 - I'm posting photos of my baby on the internet. People seem to think this is a marketing scheme(?) or that it will attract pedophiles.
4 - I'm letting my baby sleep on her side (apparently a risk of SIDS - but so is sleeping on her belly and on her back?)
5 - I'm letting our dogs be close to her. Risk of germs and disease!
6 - I go to the beach with my baby. It's supposedly "too early" to leave the house, and I'm hurting her by exposing her to the sun, however briefly.
7 - I'm breastfeeding - according to some this is insufficient nutrition for my child, and by sharing my experience nursing my baby I'm shaming mothers who bottle feed.
8 - I put too much clothes on my baby. Or too little. This opinion differs depending on the day and the person commenting.
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...the list goes on. Here is my point: if I were to listen to what everybody tells me about how to raise my child I would go INSANE. I'm a new mom. I'm doing the best I can and figuring this out as I go. I'm trusting in my intuition, listening to my baby's needs and going with the flow. If I want advice I will ask for it - which I often do! I love this community and sharing this new journey as a mom is nothing short of awesome. However, I don't need judgement, negativity or snarky comments. From anyone. At all. There are enough moments in the day for me to doubt myself and whether or not I'm doing everything wrong - trust me! We had our first difficult night last night and I've spent all morning killing myself over not knowing why Lea is suddenly agitated. Does she have a tummy ache? Is it something I ate? Is she too warm? Are we putting her diaper on too tight? Should I be doing absolutely everything differently? Am I doing everything wrong??? Fuck. I don't know. But I'm doing my best.
Aren't we all?

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