アリサ・ラモスさんのインスタグラム写真 - (アリサ・ラモスInstagram)「We broke up, and I’m finally Ok. I’m sharing this bc I try to be as honest as possible. And for the people who might think they won’t be Ok if they break up, especially right now. And also because I’ve been getting a lot of DM’s asking where he is. Sometimes we are more not Ok IN a relationship than we would be without it, but we stay, because it’s familiar, and it’s comfortable, as long as we keep telling ourselves “maybe it will get better”. I mean let’s be honest, the thought of being alone right now when human interactions are limited and your feed is flooded with babies is not ideal. But staying in a relationship that’s not meant to be or not working will only harm you AND the other person. It takes a lot of strength and courage to break up, but stay focused on the positives; you’ll have time to reflect, heal, re-get to know yourself, and relax. Plus, you will never meet the right person if you’re with the wrong one. So, while I’m extremely grateful to have had someone to go through lockdown with, someone who loved me so much that they’d go anywhere in the world to be with me even though they don’t really like to travel, and a full time best friend for almost two years, who showed me what it’s really like being a “travel couple” (not easy at all and I definitely made it look way easier and more perfect than it actually was), I had to finally accept that what we wanted from each other would never be met and it was poisoning our relationship in the worst way causing pain and resentment. So, there was a Hollywood movie style blow out, and in true My Life’s a Travel Movie form, I boarded a flight the next day, solo, for LA. Yes it has been scary now having all of my immediate future plans unknown. And a bit hard to just post and write cheerful things when I was hiding this grim reality. Which is why I’m writing it now. Again, it takes a lot of strength to end a relationship, so please don’t say sorry! If anything, I’d just appreciate some love or 🍷🥂 And if anyone is going through relationship/break up troubles, or simply just not feeling Ok, feel free to DM me. *Note: Abuse is NEVER Ok, including verbal.」1月31日 3時28分