ELLE Magazineのインスタグラム(elleusa) - 7月11日 22時03分

@マイリー・サイラス on her partner, Liam Hemsworth: “My relationship is unique. And I don’t know that I would ever publicly allow people in there because it’s so complex, and modern, and new that I don’t think we’re in a place where people would get it. I mean, do people really think that I’m at home in a fucking apron cooking dinner?” Link in bio for the full cover story.⁣
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ELLE August 2019:⁣
Editor-in-chief: @ニーナ・ガルシア⁣
Creative director: #StephenGan⁣
Cover star: @マイリー・サイラス⁣
Photographer: @マリオ・ソレンティ⁣
Stylist: @georgecortina⁣
Wearing: @Burberry, @ウォルフォード, @messikajewelry, @ティファニー, ⁣
Hair: @bobrecine⁣
Makeup: @jameskaliardos⁣
Nails: @lisajachno⁣
Written by: @molly_lambert⁣
Produced by: Kyd Drake at North Six

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jared066 @leiladumontet , it's only old school because of how I was raised, I guess. I guess I was raised in a "50s" household and my parents were probably raised the same way. Back then, the husband worked and provided for the family and the wife stayed home and took care of the kids and home. My dad was the one working on the cars and mowing the lawn and doing repairs around the house if needed. When I got older, o started mowing the yard and helping him out if needed. I can't think of one single time that my sisters mowed the yard. It was me, because that's what was expected of the guy. When you are raised that way, then you think "well this is the way it should be". I do realize that both husband and wife work these days, but someone still needs to cook. Most likey, it's still the girl growing up and learning to cook, more so then the boy. I'm not seeing that's the case in every situation. I'm sure there are many boys that grow up wanting to learn to cool and are very good at it. One of my best friends is a chef. I still think on the whole though, it's girls that learn to cook more then boys. Just for people who say that if you really enjoy cooking, then there is nothing wrong with being in the kitchen because you want to, but you shouldn't do it because you feel obligated to. I'm just saying we all do stuff at times because we are obligated to do it, even if we don't like doing it.

leiladumontet @jared066 lol maybe where you are, it is, but things change. First, less and less boys take care of the cars, they go to the garage, second, as I replied earlier, repairs you are talking about are not an everyday or even weekly chore - if so, maybe you should hire someone ;) - and third, as long as both people are happy and don't just feel pressured, it's good! Of course, each person in a relationship usually has his own chores, but the problem when it's so divided between the two is that it's uneven. Some people I know, the guy cooks because he is better than the girl and enjoy it more, while the girl will clean the dishes because she doesn't mind and the guy hates it. Or vice-versa! But the pressure on one person to do something because of her gender should stop a bit, women still tend to do a lot more, even if it might not seem so at first.

leiladumontet @jared066 oh my goddd... where do you live?? You are so old school!! Lol I think it's useless trying to argue with you on Instagram... if it works for YOUR marriage, then good, but if a woman doesn't want to always cook, do laundry, take care of the kids, clean the house, thinking about what needs to be bought for the house, etc. Everyone can find balance, and sorry, but the yard, the car and the broken things are not an everyday chore. Plus, mental load is proven to be much bigger on women than men, especially when kids are present.

jared066 @leiladumontet , then how do people eat? Ok for them, they can order out all the time because they are mega rich, but for normal people that's not possible. We all have things that we are expected to do. If you're married and move into a house, the husband is expected to take care of the yard, repair things around the house and be responsible for the cars. It might not be something he wants to do, but he does it because it's expected of him. Why not wife then?

leiladumontet @jared066 and last ;) the thing is that still today and still too often, I can see women working at their job, coming back home and dealing with everything, thinking to everything and taking care of it, while the guy waits for his dinner, waits for her to give the bath to the kids, etc., but he will complain if she makes a mistake. Not saying it's always like that and not saying men are always treated fairly! But on THIS matter, men are usually the winners.

haus_of_chanel I believe in traditional monogamous relationships with communication skills of the modern century. Swinging and almost a “don’t ask don’t tell” policy is doomed for the long run. Very curious to the modern ideology of dating and what is acceptable and not. In the world of social media and propaganda everywhere, it’s inevitable a “lingering eye.” But where do we draw the line? And what can we expect in this new era of app dating?

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