Gaby Dalkinのインスタグラム(whatsgabycookin) - 6月20日 10時01分
LIFE UPDATE! I know things are usually pretty sunny around here on WGC, but wanted to let you guys in on what’s been going on behind the scenes. Thomas and I have miscarried 4 times in the last 18 months, the most recent being just a few weeks ago.
Going through this we’ve learned a lot of things and I thought they were worth sharing if it helps anyone else!
1: Miscarriage is something that’s rarely discussed, especially in this always-beautiful-insta-friendly world. It‘s nothing to be ashamed of, nor should it have a stigma surrounding it. If we talked about it more, maybe more people would have an easier time processing. Miscarriages are far more common than we think.
2: We feel super lucky to have such an incredible network of friends, family and doctors around us who can help us handle all this. I know a lot of friends / acquaintances who feel very alone in this whole process and if you’re not comfortable talking to your friends or fam, ask your doctor as there are plenty of recommendations for places to turn for support.
3: We live in a world where everyone seems to know everything about everyone’s business. I get asked on a daily basis when we are planning to have kids. I know it’s exciting to think about (I mean, could you imagine a little @whatsthomaseating running around 😂) but here’s the thing, we never know what anyone is going through / what their plans are / or if they even want kids. It’s a tough question for a lot of people, so just something to consider before asking.
Ok back to my regularly scheduled guacamole loving sunshine-y posts. Sending all my love to anyone who needs it today and always ❤️
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katiedelormephoto
@whatsgabycookin thank you for being such a light in life who continues to demonstrate so much strength. I have yet to be able to open up about ours but am currently going through another. Some days it feels like it may be getting easier and others I can’t understand why I’m so broken. Thank you so much for posting because you and others who have commented give a renewed sense of community and not being alone in this chaotic emotional journey. ❤️❤️
salzucker
So sorry to hear this. I’m 70 years old and had my daughter at 35. I had three miscarriages after that. It turned out to be a progesterone problem. My husband had to give me progesterone shots everyday after I got pregnant for a fourth time. I had my son at 41 and he is such a joy! He is now turning 30 and my kids are 61/2 years apart! It was worth everything! Sending you love and positive thoughts!!!?❤️❤️??
angeleigh06
Thanks so much for posting this and so sorry you and Thomas are going through this. I appreciate all you said and #3 hits home for us because when we found out 2 years ago we were unable to have children we still (almost every time) when we meet knew people get asked the question, “do you have kids or when are you planning on having them?” Sending lots of love and wishing you both the best ❤️
annushshemesh
You are so inspiring and thank you for telling people. No one talks about something that is both so natural and so devastating. People feel they have the right to ask, judge and give advise where nobody asked for it (and when you become a parents it's even worse!)- people, butt out! Nobody has the right to ask such private questions. All the best to both of you ❤️
missybunch15
Sending you love, peace and calmness Gaby. It’s such a tough thing to navigate and you’re exactly right! No one knows what another couple is going through or if they even want kids or even believe in marriage or anything in between. I love love love that you brought this up to share with your followers. It’s super important. ❣️
sharkysmom
We tried for 4 years and then discovered I could not have children... it was tough but, we have had a wonderful life and just celebrated our 22nd anniversary. We love all of our friends and relatives kids and Have had an amazing life together! Love you guys always and for everything you’re going through!❤️
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