Dazed Magazineのインスタグラム(dazed) - 8月4日 23時38分

YOU DON’T LIKE THE PERSON YOU ARE WHEN YOU’RE WITH THEM
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It sounds corny, but spending time with people who have high standards for themselves and expect good things from you makes life way more fulfilling. You have less jewels, yes, but I promise you it’s worth it.
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THEY ANNOY YOU
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If you were dating someone and everything they said made you want to drive a corkscrew into your brain you probably wouldn’t date them any more, right? So what are you doing being friends with people who irritate the shit out of you?
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YOU’RE ONLY FRIENDS OUT OF HABIT
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Be honest, it’s more of an obligation thing at this point. Like going to the dentist or paying taxes. You don’t HAVE to do it, there’s no ‘rules’ to say you’ve got to. But you just sort of feel like… you should? Well, listen up, ’cos this is important: you don’t owe people your time and they don’t owe you theirs. Life is short. There are so many TV shows to watch. So many dog videos.
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YOU DON’T WANT TO INTRODUCE THEM TO YOUR NEW FRIENDS
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“Oh no, it’s just because they don’t have much in common. I’m not embarrassed. Jamie from work is a huge Coldplay fan and Monica kicks pensioners in the shin on public transport. They’re just SO different! I’M NOT EMBARRASSED, THOUGH!!” Come on. Come onnnnn. Be honest. You are embarrassed. As you should be.
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YOU DON’T LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING THEM
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Your friendships should be the most significant relationships in your life, is what I think. They should uplift you, sustain you, edify you. This idea that friendships are footnotes, extras, secondary to romantic relationships is crazy bullshit. Think about it like this: these are the people you’re spending most of your life with. They’re going to be there through the best and worst times, they’re going to see you fail and they’re going to see you win. They’re going to watch on in horror as you drunkenly throw up in your own lap at McDonalds and then keep eating your Chicken Legend meal like nothing’s happened. At the very least, you should feel pumped at the thought of hanging out with these clowns. - words Beth McColl. Full feature on dazeddigital.com

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